As a parent, I go through my activities hoping to influence my children in a positive way. Hoping that the things I do will be more influencial than the things they learn from their friends, television, or the world in general. The times when I see these influences come through are rare and memorable.
I am in a book club. Once a month a few friends and I meet at an eatery and discuss a science fiction book. My wife works nights, so I usually carry the kids along for the ride. They get bored, but I have usually brought something for them to do while they wait.
At this months meeting, my oldest suggested that we read some Magic Tree House books so that she could get in on the discussion. Then, last night, she came up with the idea that she start her own book club. She had a list of friends that she wants to be a part of it. She wants the meetings to be at McDonalds (I agreed with her that a place with food makes it better). She was very excited by the idea. I asked her if they would read only a certain kind of book and she said, "No, we will read all kinds."
I would be lying if I said that I wasn't proud of her. Here was an activity that I enjoyed with my friends and I was setting an example of behaviour the whole time. It just goes to show you that children are watching even when you think they aren't or they say they are bored. Show your children positives and try not to be too suprised when they show you those positives right back.
